While many people create New Year’s resolutions, some folks create lists of goals or yearly objectives, others kind of take things as they come, there are also those that simply care not and move in whatever direction events happen to take them. Unsurprisingly, I fit none of these modes. I want to live comfortably and be happier with what I have than with what I don’t have yet. Most of the previously mentioned modes is focused on an outcome or an end point. I prefer to focus on the letters, spaces, and meaning of a sentence rather than on the period at the end of it.
This was the impetus for my more process-oriented list of priorities. I basically just created a set of guidelines of how I wanted to prioritize my time and efforts. They are in priority order (it seemed silly for me to create a list of priorities in random order, though that may work for some). Even though I expect these to evolve and change over time, I tried to corral them in what seemed like a a reasonable time frame (2010). I created these guidelines in early February and have found them to be quite useful. As I look at scheduling my week or day and have more opportunities (things to do) than the time to do them, I check the opportunity list against my priorities.
Let’s say I’m deciding whether to do watch a movie or go for a bike ride. I’ll consider whether either opportunity matches a priority. Movie – no. Bike ride – yes. I’ll probably go with the bike ride assuming the weather is tolerable. When both match a priority, does one match multiple priorities? Can I adjust the opportunity to address additional priorities? Has a priority not been attended to in a while?
It also seems logical that a lot, if not most, of my Daily Positives originate from my priorities. Seems to me like they are and that speaks of appropriate alignment. Another positive right there! 😉
Just some practical tips that work for me.